Listening to Relate

There are so many different reasons for listening. In this series, we’re presenting a range of inquiries as a way to think about how and why we listen, and how our intentions affect the experience.

Today we’re asking: How can we listen to relate?

  • What happens when we reflect back what someone has said before replying with our thoughts?

  • How can conversations change when we make the effort to repeat back what another person has said?

  • What does it feel like to hear your own words reflected back by someone else?

  • Phrases like these can help create space for reflective listening: “It sounds like you feel…” or “I hear you saying this… is that right?”