“I miss my four cats back home,” she said. “Want to see pictures of them?!”
She was a graduate student in biotechnology. She explained that the program consumed her life.
She saw other students studying abroad, posting pictures of travel and fun, but there was no room for that in her life.
“There’s Little Brother, who has a good temper; Twist Roll (closest translation in English), who is grumpy; Lulu, who’s grumpy too; and Herb Jelly (another translation), who is shy and clever.”
She showed me pictures of each one. “When I am stressed, even just looking at the pictures of them helps me calm, settle, and relax. Even when they scratch me, I still love them!”
Listener Poet Jenny Hegland
Georgetown University Medical Center
March 2020
Cat Comfort
we all find comfort
in our own ways;
a respite from
our stressful days
mine comes from
four cats at home;
reminding I am
never alone
soft fur, swiping paws
peaceful purr, clenching jaws
warm cuddles, clever nooks
night snuggles, grumpy looks
they may not seem friendly
to others — these four,
but they’re my little family
and so much more!
“I wonder if these medical professionals, in caring for people who face such insurmountable odds, walk around all the time carrying this weight I’m hauling now.”
He had been trying to cope with the grief ever since and was on a quest for soul-searching and meaning-making.
She spoke about the ways this traumatic event shaped who she is today: a person with an “unshakeable peace” born of deep faith,
She wanted to help people feel comfortable and transform the shame around colon issues. "I want to talk about things that matter, the things people don't want to discuss.
When we met, she was coming off a stretch of nine 14-hour shifts. She was tired but in good spirits.
She reflected on how her resilience was born from moments of shared mirth amid life's trying chapters.
“Life is complex and dirty, but digging in is important to me,” she said. “Maybe if more of us understood history, we could understand each other better.”
We are expected to research, contribute to scholarship, earn grants – all on our own time.
We are expected to research, contribute to scholarship, earn grants – all on our own time.
Every day, I try to see through the patient lens, and I ask: what can we do to change this broken system?
She was very proud of her daughter and has hopes for “a bright future that’s as pain free as possible”
“I’m trying to focus on doing little things to make people feel better during everything that’s going on in the world,” she told me.
“It’s hard to see others struggle,” she said. “How can I help with their struggle without struggling myself?”
"I'd tell her it's OK to be loud...it's OK to challenge and to bring all of you into these spaces where no one looks like you..."
“I'm continuously questioning: did I do it right?" she said. "I’ve always done a good amount of second-guessing, but I’m re-learning how to show up differently.”
“It’s weird,” she said. “This is one of the biggest accomplishments of my life, but it doesn’t feel like it.”
"It changed me; It changed the way I look at life," said this woman about her profound experience during her pregnancy.
“It’s been more challenging than normal lately,” she said. “I’m only one person. It's a struggle for me to say no, but I can’t do everything that’s being asked of me right now.”
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.
"I've been processing how to make the most of the small amount of life we have to live," said this physician.